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Saturday, 31 March 2012

Airtel New back Query Hack April 2012 vnap Buster Pc handler Modded – Screen shot added [iTsArticles]

Hello Friend This is My First Articles About Mobile Tricks In My Blog.
Here a new trick for Unlimited downloading with airtel,,with backquery
1.  Download vnap from here, Click Here!
2.  Install it but must sure .net framwork is installed in your pc.
3. After install open vnap and goto profile,
4. Create new profile put local 1234 
5. In url and header tweak put backquery 
[size=18pt]?www.facebook.com/inluvwdu 
or 
?www.facebook.com/maahileon
6. Save profile.
7. Now put proxy 127.0.0.1 port 1234 in mozila and aswell idm.
start the vnap and enjoy unlimited downloading


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How to Be Hot (Guys) [iTs Articles]


Steps :

1.  Shower. Wash your hair, body and face. And have a nice smelling cologne. Girls like guys who smell good, it gives them a desire to be close to you. But don't overdo it on the cologne, otherwise, it really has an opposite effect.
 
2.  Workout. Girls LOVE athletic guys. Hit the gym or weight room. But don't overdo it on the weights. Nothing is sexier than pumped arms and washboard abs. Most girls want guys with muscles in moderation, it is a suggestion to avoid having muscles like a hardcore wrestler. Understand that you can still look hot without muscles, but you would need to make up for it through your personality and your looks. 

3.  Get involved with sports. Of course this is a stereotypical opinion, but so is the image of a "hot" guy. Try finding a sport you enjoy and perhaps find a team to join. If you are not the sporty type, go for something you love. Girls also like guys who can play instruments, or sing, or is an artist.

4.  Compliment some of the girls you interact with. Avoid going for things like eyes or smile, but start off casual. (Ex. That dress looks really nice/ good on you.) Many guys don't know the effect that these things can have, it makes girls feel warmer towards you.

5.  Don't be a player. Of course players can be hot, but by having a player reputation, it makes girls feel less inclined to date you, if they know about your previous relationships.

6.  Don't ignore her. Girls can't stand to think you don't want them

7.  Try to project your personality. Stereotypical personality types include guys who are confident, or silent, or rebellious, or out going, but never feel the need to change who you are, though being confident about yourself is a must.

8.  Wear nice clothes. They don't even need to be all that complicated. Many guys look perfectly fine in t-shirts, dress shirts, vests, jeans, a necklace or two, a scarf/ bandanna, a ring, a hat, a pair of sunglasses, etc. Maybe sweaters not so much. Pick up some American Eagle, Abercrombie, etc.

Tips:
Be nice to everyone
Smile!

Warnings :
It is possible that many girls/women will be attracted to you.

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How to Give Yourself a Different Look [iTsArticles]

Steps :

1.  Change your hair style. You don't need to change your hair completely, but if you want to, you can. If you keep your hair down and strait, maybe try putting it up in a high ponytail and curl it slightly. You don't need to dye your hair, but if you want to, do as you please. Remember, never dye your hair more than 2 shades lighter or darker than your natural hair color. Not only does it look more natural, when you get roots, they're not as noticeable!

2.  Change up your style. Once again, don't change everything, keep the big things the same! (In the article before this, it stated to wear a ball gown) Keep the big things the same, while just changing the small things. Don't wear ball gowns. :P If you wear a t-shirt and jeans, maybe go for a nice skirt and a long sleeved sweater, but if you're not the type of person to wear a skirt, go for short pants, or shorts.

3.  Wear make-up if you are comfortable with wearing some. Don't go crazy, just put on some nice eye shadow that makes your eyes pop. For blue eyes, brown eyeshadow makes them pop. I would know, because I have blue eyes.

Tips :
Don't do this just to make others happy. Be yourself! 
Don't freak people out by looking like a different person every day.

Warnings :
Only do things you're comfortable with!

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Friday, 30 March 2012

How to Do a Hairstyle in 10 Minutes [Its Articles]

Its ArticlesA cute and suitable hairstyle, does not have to take hours to create. It should not take more than ten minutes to make any one of these separate hairsyles. Each one should look good on you, so take your choice, or try each, on separate days.









Steps: 

1. Curl your hair with a curling iron or straight iron(both work). This should only take you about 8-9 minutes.


2.  Part your hair to put in pigtails. This should be quick--about 30 seconds.



3.  Tie your pigtails. This should also take only 30 seconds.



4. Flip your hair forward then back to get a pulled back ponytail. This should take about 45 seconds

  

 5.  Short or straight hair can be teased with the comb, or worn straight, as a bob, or worn towards your face.



Tips:

  • Don't make the pigtails too tight.
  • Don't worry if your part isn't straight or if all your hair isn't curled. Slightly messy can be cute too!

Warnings :

  • Make sure that your hair is brushed before you start. It is difficult to make a straight part if your hair is knotted.
  • Depending on the thickness and length of your hair, curling hair may take much longer.


Things You'll Need :

  • straightener (optional)
  • curling iron (optional)
  • hair bands
  • head bands (optional)

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How to Cross Emo and Skater Hair [Its Articles]

Skater hair is usually curly and emo hair is pin straight. How do you combine them when you like them both?










Steps :

1. Shower and shampoo your hair thoroughly.



2. Dry your hair completely with a little bit of damp but only with a towel.

Your hair should have bangs which are a little below the eyes when you pull it down, and halfway down your ears on the sides.







 3. Flip your hair down and using a bit of Garnier's leave in conditioner pull all the hair down.


Using your fingers your hair should be directly down toward gravity since your head is upside down.




 4.  Straighten all of the hair while it's in that position



5. Straighten up and then shake your head hard side to side


It should settle but with a bit of a fan to the sides

 






6.  If you flick your hair towards the right then take the left side of the hair and flatten it to the side of your head.


7.  Arrange your bangs so that they go a bit towards the direction of your flick.

If you have a right flick then the right side of the hair should remain fanned out (use some spray to secure that).


8.   Flatten the back along your neck and you're done.



Tips: 

  • If you have the side against your head it works fine
  • The fan on the side of the flick makes it the part skater style




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Life & Fashion After Weight Loss [iTsArticles]


Hello, gorgeous! Yes, you … the one reading this. What? You don't think you look good? Honey, you're smokin' hot. You've worked your ass off -- literally -- to make those pounds melt away, and you should treat yourself to some serious shopping to dress that new you.


 

The average U.S. woman is 5 feet, 4 inches tall and weighs 140 lbs., while the average model is 5 feet, 11 inches tall and weighs 117 lbs.

- The Eating Disorder Foundation



Think Thin:

You don't deserve it, you say? You still feel fat? Well, you're not alone. Four out of five American women aren't happy with how they look, according to the Eating Disorder Foundation. But did you know that two out of five women would give up years of their lives to achieve their weight loss goals? You've already accomplished that! And considering the diet industry is the only one in the world with a 98-percent failure rate, you've beaten the odds. That should make you feel awesome.

But if you're still lacking the self-confidence to seek out a fabulous post-weight-loss style, know that it's common among women who've shed pounds. Losing weight is even more of a mental challenge than a physical one. Along with push-ups and sit-ups, you must do emotional calisthenics to sustain it. How? Affirmation work, according to Signe Darpinian, licensed therapist and founder of My Weigh, a California treatment center dedicated to eating, weight and body image issues.

“You have to lay down a new belief system,” Darpinian said. “To do that you have to diligently work on affirmations. Look the negative thoughts in the eye and gently push them away, replacing them with new affirmations like, 'My body is a temple and I'll treat it as such.' But choose an affirmation that is tailored to your specific body image.”

Be Prepared:

Once you're ready to do a little retail therapy, do it right. Darpinian recommends hitting the mall on a day when you'll see your therapist, if you have one. If not, take your BFF or someone close to you whom you can count on for support.

And while you're out and about, don't fall into the confidence crater that is comparing yourself to others, especially those who grace the pages of fashion mags. Did you know that the average U.S. woman is 5 feet 4 inches tall and weighs 140 lbs., while the average model is 5 feet 11 inches tall and weighs 117 lbs.? That staggering statistic comes from the Eating Disorder Foundation, which also points out that some magazines digitally alter photos to achieve picturesque perfection.

Shop in the Now:
When it comes to what to buy, therapists and stylists agree.

“Buy clothes that fit your body right now, not a size bigger or smaller,” Darpinian said. “That prevents future worry thoughts and is a good indicator that you're living with present awareness.”

Try on a range of sizes, starting with one you know is too large and working your way down to one that fits. Resist the temptation to squeeze yourself into a tight, Spandex dress. Just because you can doesn't mean you should.

Sharon Haver, founder of the FocusOnStyle online fashion magazine and a former stylist and syndicated fashion advice columnist, says you should take stock of your physical assets – nice legs or shapely tush, for example – and choose clothes that show those off. And remember that your figure type isn't going to change, even without excess poundage.

“Once an apple, always an apple,” Haver said, “but less of one.” You have to rock what you've got.

Smart Buys:
With any luck, your weight loss effort began with the inner you, transforming the outer you. Experience a similar effect with your wardrobe by launching your new look with well-fitting undergarments.
“When you're wearing a bra that's too big for you, you're going to look a little saggy,” Haver said. “Invest in the right size bra. And consider toning undergarments: pantyhose with a little Lycra or panties with laser cut edges to smooth you. When you lose weight, you lose elasticity, so good shapewear makes you look that much thinner.”
Other must-haves are items that are forgiving when you move a couple of pounds up or down on the scale, because it's impossible to maintain exactly the same weight. Haver recommends jeans and pants with a little stretch, wide legs and high waists. She also favors pieces that can pull double-duty, such as a tunic top or shirt dress that you can wear loose to cover your rear or belt when you're feeling thinner. The key to tops?  

“Jackets, tops and coats should fit across the shoulder and bust,” Haver said. “As long as it fits there, it will hang right.”
And hanging right is what it's all about, with your new clothes and your new body.

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Elements of Style: Men's Eyewear [iTsArticles]


There's a classic "Seinfeld" episode where Jerry and Elaine grow impatient while George Costanza tries to choose a pair of frames at an optometrist’s office. George responds to his friends' restlessness by replying,  

“It’s an important decision, I’m picking out a new face.”
In a way, George is right. Despite your best efforts for well-groomed hair, smooth skin, a brilliant smile and toned body, one of the first things people notice about you are your eyes, because that's where they focus when you speak. Your eyewear is no small matter when it comes to making an impression.

Prescription Eyewear: A Stylish Opportunity

Today, it's not unusual for men to wear glasses that have no prescription at all, notes Dr. Guy Hodgson, an Austin, Texas-based optometrist and co-founder of FramesDirect.com.

Eyewear has emerged as a significant style component, thanks to the fashion forces that changed the industry. If you go back to the late 1980s, men didn't have a range of choices when it came to eyewear. But changes happened rather quickly when some of the high-end fashion houses like Ralph Lauren, Versace and Giorgio Armani got involved.

“These large, famous fashion houses took the industry in a whole new direction, making eye frames a fashion accessory," said Hodgson. “The traditional big manufacturers have long produced the frames, but they realized after the success of Lauren and Armani that designer names really meant something to people. That was because they were exceptionally designed, well made and produced on a consistent high-quality basis. Other fashion designers got involved, and so the eyewear industry really became an extension of the trends of those fashion houses -- be it Gucci, Prada, Versace and more.”

Certainly, high-end brand names lead the way, but regardless of the name, it's essential that a man consider some personal factors when sizing up a certain frame. Elements that should come into play include eye/hair color, jaw line, nose size, wardrobe, occupation, personality and something perhaps that is not as obvious: skin tone.

“One thing most guys don’t think about is their complexions. For example, those with darker skin and hair would look better in a darker frame,” said Anna Ramirez, a style consultant at Semel Vision Care in El Segundo, California.

In addition to your skin tone, the contours of your face also have an influence. “A simple way to look at it is, whatever the shape of your face, go with the opposite in frame styles,” said optometrist Dr. Jeff Marshak also based in El Segundo. “If you have a very round face, don’t put on a pair of round frames, it will accentuate it. A more rectangular frame will work better. For someone with a more rectangular face, go with a frame that is rounder. For someone with a heart-shaped face and a prominent jaw, you wouldn’t suggest an aviator shape as it would pull their face down. There are many variables.”

Trends in Men's Eyewear

Big and conspicuous frames are currently trending among men.

“Bold, preppy frames are making an impact on men’s fashion,” said Mike Minadeo, vice president of product at Lenscrafters. “Many A-list male celebrities have been spotted sporting a thick-framed look lately, including Jay-Z, David Beckham and Brad Pitt.”

Ramirez concurs that "retro and geek and larger and bolder are in, as more men are opting for the 'notice-me' standout look of the big bold frames."

These experts also believe that some classic styles will always be in fashion.

“The P3, orbal and round never go out of style. They have been around since the signing of the Declaration of Independence,” said Marshak.

Regardless of shape, the quality of materials for both the frames and lens is key when it comes to popular eyewear. For example, another leading style is the rimless look, because these glasses are extremely light and often made of titanium, which is both light and strong. For lenses, you're no longer limited to heavy glass or plastic; polycarbonates, Trivex and other light materials have become popular options.

For the sports-minded man who hikes, sails, bikes, runs or plays golf, prescription eyewear fashion extends to manufacturers’ RX-able, or prescription-ready, models. Hodgson says high-end activewear manufacturers like Maui Jim and Oakley put an enormous amount of research into their products to accommodate prescription lenses. Technology has led to better wraps or bend in the lenses to improve performance without increasing distortion.

New technology has also led to multi-use styles. “Some of the new hybrid lenses give men the advantage of having prescription sunglasses that are not only light, but also scratch- and impact-resistant. When combined with titanium or Monel metal frames, you get a stylish look that can go from sports to dinner,” said John  

Sanchez, vice president of technical product development at Maui Jim.

With the vast number of style options out there these days, a man on a budget can easily meet his fashion and functional needs.

“Think of frames as an investment in your face," said Ramirez. "By going with quality products and taking care of them, they last many years. I’ve had my Versace frames for 10 years, and they still look brand new.  

Good eyewear style is within the reach of every man.”
Just take your time when you choose; after all, as George Costanza said, you’re picking out a new face.

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What Do Women Want In A Man? [Its Articles]

Its ArticlesIt’s easy to see why so many guys are confused and clueless about what women really look for in a man. Women sometimes voice a desire for one type of man but then actually choose the opposite type for their mate.


Why is this? The answer is that when women communicate their ideal man, they are expressing a well thought out opinion. This opinion is formulated in the thinking part of the brain. It draws on their past experiences and balances out a lot of pro’s and con’s. It’s logical and makes a lot of sense.

But the mechanism of attraction isn’t based on logic. It’s based on “chemistry”, on how a man makes a woman feel. Men are guilty of this too when it comes to the type of women that arouse us. These subconscious motivators are very powerful.

A woman may say that she wants a guy that listens to what she has to say. But then she chooses a man that dominates the conversation. Or maybe she wants a guy with a good sense of humor, but dates a man with big muscles or a man with lots of money.

While being a good listener is a great skill for keeping a relationship healthy, you can’t have a relationship until you’ve succeeded in attracting her interest in you as a sexual entity.

As you know, the reason for the attraction between men and women is to propagate our species. Getting pregnant may be the last thing on her mind when she sizes up a man. But the attraction that she feels is a subconscious search for a good father for her children. Back when we were all hunter/gatherers, a good father was a someone who could provide for his mate and his children. This was a man who had the strength and confidence to bring home the bacon, not someone who listened to his mate.

Women need men who are good providers, men who can ensure stability for her babies. For this reason a financially secure man has a better chance of landing a woman than an unemployed man.

A woman also needs to perceive that a man will be generous with his resources. A man that’s skillful at the hunt but refuses to share the food with his family makes for a poor mate. That’s why the giving of gifts has always been a part of the courtship ritual. A generous man is a good provider. This could very well be the origin the engagement ring tradition. It demonstrates that a man has the resources and the willingness to share it with his mate and her children.

So before you can have a relationship, you must succeed in attracting her first. In those first minutes of meeting a new woman, you’ll need to display that you’re a confident, healthy, strong, powerful male. This is what women really want in a man. This triggers that initial animal attraction that evolution has wired into her.


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How To Approach Girls [Its Articles]

Its ArticlesHere’s a classic scenario that’s been happening all over the world since the beginning of time (well, not really). You notice a beautiful girl and she becomes aware of your glances. In the span of a few seconds you decide to do nothing and then just go about your business. This is a very common daily experience that a lot of guys won’t admit to.



Sometimes a brave soul will just go for it and approach her anyway. When he reaches her with a blanked out mind and a racing pulse, he does or says something causing an awkward moment for both him and the girl. Later that day he tries his best to suppress all memories of his humiliation.

There are a million and two variations to this but they all amount to missed opportunities. Guys with this problem all recognize that they’re having difficulties with approaching women. What they fail to do is resolve to fix their problem in a deliberate and methodical way.

This means gaining experience gradually by taking small baby steps. What I mean is that you need to get proficient at spontaneous socializing with strangers. You should make a goal of talking to as many strangers as you can during the course of your day. Your interactions won’t necessarily be full blown discussions. If you tried to force lengthy conversation on people they’ll probably get annoyed and back away.

Your interactions have to come across as a natural reaction on your part to something about the person or the situation. When you’re taking these baby steps, the goal is not picking up every female you come across. You’re just trying to initiate some talk which will naturally run its course, then you’ll move on.

I personally prefer to use humor whenever I can to loosen things up. There’s no quicker way to set a girl at ease than to make her laugh. I’ve found at least for me, that it’s far easier to make a girl laugh than a guy.

That’s because the girl is simultaneously hearing something funny and experiencing the thrill of attention from the opposite sex. It’s sort of a quick one-two punch that many women will automatically react to with laughter.

The humor doesn’t have to be all that funny. It only needs to be spontaneous and appropriate to the situation. The other day I got three women at a Star Bucks to laugh at this phrase: “eeny, meenie, minie, moe”. There’s nothing gut wrenching about the phrase itself. But it seemed the natural thing to say when three female employees were ready to take my order and it wasn’t clear who I should give my order to. An hour later at a different location, I caused a girl to burst into laughter when I said the word “five”. You had to be there to understand.

The formula for this type of humor is spontaneity, appropriateness, and being playful. There’s many formulas for humor, but that’s the one that works for me. You’ll want to avoid humor that make you seem like a clown, because you want to come across as an interesting and exciting male.
The easiest way to begin your baby steps is to start with women (you’ve not met before) that you’re expected to interact with anyway. So you’ll be targeting every bank teller, cashier, waitress, grocery bagger, librarian, and so on. You will want to get them to talk about something that’s not required by their job. So asking a waitress what the day’s special is doesn’t count as a social interaction. And remember that humor is a great ice breaker.

When this becomes second nature, then it’s time do your little interactions with women that you’re not expected to interact with. As you do this, start asking open ended questions that aren’t prying, to get her to open up more. With consistent repetition of this every day, you’ll reach the point where approaching and getting to know a woman that you take a fancy to won’t be that big of a deal. If she rejects you, it’s not because of awkwardness on your part. It’ll be because of circumstances that have to do with her. And besides, if you get rejected, so what? Who cares?



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How To Be Attractive To Women If You’re An Introvert [Its Articles]

Are you an introvert? If you are, don’t be too hard on yourself because you’ve got a lot going for you. To start with I’d like to make it clear that introversion is not the same as shyness.

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Because introverts get their energy from within themselves rather than from others (as extroverts do) they tend to lag in the social skills. This can make them awkward and uncomfortable in social situations. So introverts can suffer from shyness but there are many introverts who do not.
Know that you are not alone in the world. Thirty percent of the world’s population are introverts.
Some examples of successful introverts: Johnny Carson, Neil Armstrong, Albert Einstein, Thomas Edison, Jerry Seinfeld, Tiger Woods, James Dean, Clint Eastwood, and Steven Spielberg.
When it comes to getting women, being an introvert means that you will go after certain types of women that are compatible with your personality type. It would also be advisable to meet women in places more suitable to your temperament. So this probably rules out the noisy bars and night clubs of your extroverted brethren.

It also helps if you fit into certain introvert stereotypes that society admires. One example of this would be someone who’s a deep thinker that can offer profound and intriguing insights on a variety of subjects. Given that many introverts live a life of the mind, you probably wouldn’t have to work very hard to cultivate this type of persona.

If you’re successful at this and if you choose a compatible female, she will see you as this mysterious deep well that never fails to surprise her with intriguing insights.
If this is not ‘you’ then perhaps you’re exceptionally creative and you can build your persona around this particular strength. I’m not saying that you have to be someone you aren’t. I’m saying that many women are intrigued by men who are different in a positive way. Men who are deep, mysterious. The confident introvert naturally has this quality in spades. Extroverts get to play the ‘bad boy’ to attract women. Introverts get to play the ‘mystery man’, the cool James Bond who’s not going to be a boring push over.

Because of their great powers of focus, many introverts occupy professions such as doctor, writer, scientist, professor, etc. These are high status positions and males of high status are always considered desirable by the opposite sex.

If you’re like a lot of introverts, it wouldn’t hurt to work on your social skills. This will allow you to be relaxed enough so that you can center your focus on that woman you’re talking to right now. You don’t want your focus diverted by self consciousness. Being relaxed is a sign of confidence which most women regard as desirable in a man.

There are a number of ways to improve the social skills. You can make an effort to socially interact with as many people as you can throughout the day. Or if you find this too exhausting (as many introverts would), join groups and communities that share your interests and become active and involved. Being able to socialize is a skill that gets easier and easier with practice. The brain is remarkable in it’s ability to pick things up and adapt.


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A Guy's Guide to Good Hair [iTsArticles]

Whether you're paying $25 at the local barber or more than $100 at a swanky salon, a hairstylist is a skilled artisan. His craft is hair design.

That’s certainly how Yuki Sharoni, a stylist who has been cutting hair for over 20 years in Beverly Hills,  

California, feels about his profession. “Your hair is basically a frame to your face," said Sharoni, owner of Yuki Sharoni: Beauty & Lifestyle. "Since your face is a piece of art, you need a good frame. That's where we come in.”

Stylists know that you're a reflection of their talents. They understand that word of mouth can be good -- or bad -- for business.

One of the first things clients notice at Fahimeh Betts Hair Designer's Studio in Santa Monica, California, is a small but prominently placed sign that really says it all: “Let me drop EVERYTHING and work on your problem.”

The joke aside, you may expect a talented hairstylist to bring all her focus and energy on your hair for the time you are at her work station. That focus might produce many questions -- some of which could seem irrelevant at first. However, because so many factors come into play when it comes to a good hairstyle, you must trust that the inquiries will collectively help the stylist achieve the best results possible.

Christi Thomas, who has trained with Vidal Sassoon, worked in New York and Hawaii and is currently based in Santa Monica, talks about the personal nature of hairstyling and the importance of building a rapport with each client.

I love what I do, even after 17 years," said Thomas, president and CEO of Purrrfect Bangs by ChristiCat.  
"I take it very seriously; it's a personal business. As a stylist, not only am I touching my clients, I am spending a good amount of time in their personal spaces. I affect the way they feel about themselves, and maybe even the way other people view or judge them -- whether they're 20-something or middle-aged. It's very rewarding work.”

By asking questions regarding your lifestyle, wardrobe, profession, time spent outdoors, social calendar and amount and type of product used on your hair, stylists can begin to form a plan to optimize your unique personality and hair.

Fahimeh Betts, whose salon was established in 1987, explained how such questions and the answers they produce help both parties. “One reason why I ask what they do for a living," she said, "is that it gives me an idea about maintenance, like how much time they can spend in the morning with their hair, as well as the possibility of options, giving them versatility within a cut.”

Natalie Bush, a stylist with The Cut Salon in Santa Monica, agrees that because people have such busy, go-go lifestyles it's a priority to know how much time a guy is willing to spend on caring for his hair.

“For many men, it's almost as much about the ongoing grooming requirement of a given style as getting the most flattering look," Bush said. "How much time do you want to put in in the morning to style it to start your day? That and lifestyle are the biggest determinants of what kind of style that is best for you.”

As far as the physical aspect of hairstyling, whether your hair is curly, straight or wavy -- and whether your face is oval, round, square or oblong -- experienced stylists will take whatever you have on your head and focus on certain individual features, such as the eyes, forehead, jaw line and chin, to create your best look.

Naturally, the final decision is up to you, but a good stylist will also pull no punches when it comes to telling you what she feels is your best option. “That's why it is important to have a consultation with a first-time client," said Betts. “I ask what he wants and why I believe his choice is good or bad for him. It's why I sit down with the client, go over his face and explain with hand gestures, while he's looking in the mirror, what he should consider. Clients trust me, and when I finish they say ‘Wow.' " I even take a before and after picture so they can judge for themselves." 
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Hair Maintenance between Visits:

With the average haircut lasting four to six weeks, hairstylists have tips to keep your hair looking good until your next cut. “I feel that it’s important to not only fully consult my clients in the salon, but to educate them on what products to use and at-home tricks,” said Santa Monica, California-based stylist Christi Thomas.


While economic conditions understandably come into play, experts say it’s best not to go cheap with hair products.

“(In) these days of tight dollars it’s easy to skimp on quality shampoo, but going cheap can exacerbate problems like oily or dry hair,” said Fahimeh Betts, also a Santa Monica-based stylist.

Natalie Bush, operating from The Cut Salon in Santa Monica, adds that rotating brands is a good habit, as is thinking about your hair like you would food. “Your scalp can get addicted to a certain brand, making it less effective," she said. "I think it’s good to rotate among a few different brands. Like food, a quality product results in better nutrition for your hair. You can tell the difference after dining at a fast food establishment or a gourmet restaurant.”

“Brushing is always good," said Yuki Sharoni, owner of a Beverly Hills, California, salon. "More men need to make it a habit. Do it nightly when you’re sitting at home -- or have your lady friend do it. It actually takes away stress, which is very bad for the hair; it’s like using a rake on your garden, good to stimulate growth.”

If you want to look your best, it's best to turn to the professionals, but expert hairstylists aren't mind readers.  
If you walk away from your stylist with what you feel is a bad hair cut, take another look in the mirror and consider your inability to articulate your desires.

The hair pros will tell you that the art of getting a good hairstyle really is all about communication. It can be as simple as providing a photo of someone sporting a look you like, but perhaps the best method is to open up about yourself. Since your hair is a rather prominent accessory, it's a good idea to help your stylist help you.

If you have trouble finding a hairstylist, when you are out and about and see a person with a style you like, simply approach him and ask who cuts his hair. He'll be flattered and you'll hopefully find someone to give you the look that's right for you.
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More Advice For The Shy Introvert – Interacting With Women [Its Articles]

Here are more suggestions at how to beat your shyness and comfortably interact with women:
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1.) Learn how to externalize your focus away from your yourself and on to the situation at hand.
Anytime you’re talking with a person whether a store keeper, bank teller, your sister, or anyone at all, practice on focusing 100% on what they’re talking about.


Don’t be planning ahead about what you’re going to say, because that’s self directed focus. Instead, just follow along with what’s being said and if you find you have nothing to add, don’t worry about it for now. The exercise is to habituate you to externalizing your focus to what’s being said when another person speaks.

When you’re feeling up to it, try going to a social event with the idea of doing nothing but listening to what others are saying. Since you’re not trying to impress anyone (just yet), there’s no pressure on you to perform. Go up to the group that seems to be having the most fun and listen in to what’s being said.

If you find yourself laughing at some point, then you’ve succeeded at externalizing your focus away from yourself. Try to lose yourself in whatever is being discussed. This is the first step to relating to people.
Notice that when you’re focused on yourself, the words of other people are nothing but words. When you have externalized your focus, other people’s words become experiences that you experience vicariously.

2.) Don’t place women on a pedestal.
They are just people with female sex organs. They have as many flaws and imperfections as the other half of the human race. If you have any sisters, then you know exactly what I mean.
By seeing them as having the qualities of the average person, talking to them will be much easier. And besides, if you see them as being too good for you, they will sense this from your behavior and that will kill any attraction.

3.) Don’t see women as sex objects.
I understand that this can be hard to do sometimes, but seeing someone as an object makes it impossible to relate to them. An object is an object, whether it’s a chair, desk, hammer, or centerfold pin-up. Sane people don’t relate to objects, they relate to people.

Perhaps you might practice your social skills on someone who won’t distract you with their stunning beauty. Then move on to more attractive women.


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How To Be A Flirt – It’s All In Your Attitude [ItsArticles]


Its ArticlesIf you’re constantly telling yourself that you need to learn how to talk to girls, you’re approaching the problem the hard way. In fact, viewing it as a problem that has to be overcome will turn it into internal battle with yourself.

The harder you try to start a conversation with a girl, the more tense and nervous you’ll get. You might get the words out ok but the girl will immediately pick up on your nervousness and if she’s a stranger, it probably won’t turn out well.

A better way is not to take it seriously at all but instead look at it as being an exciting and fun game. Rather than telling yourself that you just got to figure out how to talk with girls, tell yourself that you’re going to learn how to be a really great flirt. See the difference? The second way is more empowering. It’s ambitious. Ambition is good.


Think of this as a fun new hobby. Because it’s a new hobby, you’ll realize that you won’t get proficient in a day but will GRADUALLY get better with practice. You’ll be practicing on strangers that you meet whether at the store, mall, or at social occasions.
When you do this you won’t care about the outcome one way or the other because it’s just a game and it’s with strangers that you’ll never see again anyway. As long as your behavior isn’t outrageous or insulting, no harm is done either to you or the girl. It’s just harmless fun. Repeat that sentence to yourself as often as necessary: It’s just harmless fun.

When you get a girl to laugh and talk with you, it will be intoxicating. Believe me, it will lift your spirits like nothing else can. After that first success, you’ll want to do it again, maybe with the same girl or maybe with someone else.

Remember to inject fun and playfulness into your interactions. Flirting is playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest. Don’t worry about the sexual interest part, just focus on the playfulness.
There’s another benefit to playful, humorous flirtation: it not only makes you desirable to the girl that you’re flirting with, it also elevates your status among the other women who may be watching. This is called social validation. These women see that another woman is enjoying your company. So in their minds, you must be a fun and interesting guy.

Good flirts make other people feel special and enjoy doing it. It builds confidence, can make you a lot of friends and is a playful way to safely test the waters when it comes to romance.
It’s important that all of your focus should be on making the girl respond in a good way. Absolutely none of your focus should be self conscious. Always keep your mind directed outward to the girl.

Remember that if you can make others feel good, you will feel good.



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Nine Tips On Attracting Women [Its Articles]


Here’s nine useful things to give you the edge in your quest for love.

Its Articles1.) The power of a smile. A smile shows that you are relaxed and confident. It also relaxes others and is definitely an ice breaker. Add some cockiness to your smile and you’re projecting an alpha male image. A complete turn-on for women.

2.) Dressing well. How you dress can have a dramatic effect on your physical attractiveness. If this is true with respect to female attractiveness (and we’ve all done a double take when the plain Jane at work shows up at a social occasion in a stunning dress), it’s true for male attractiveness. New, stylish clothing that fits well is a must. Another important item: your shoes. This seems to be important to women, so be sure that your shoes are stylish, polished, and clean.

3.) Fitness. Being fit and healthy attracts women. If you’re not athletically inclined and hate working out, then try looking fit. This means having a good posture and walking with a relaxed athletic grace. Don’t hunch your shoulders, keep them back and down. Clothing with a good fit helps.

4.) If you have an independent streak, then now is the time to show it. Women love this because it’s a sign of strength. Independence is the opposite of neediness. Most women thoroughly detest neediness. If you find yourself in a relationship with a women that wants a needy man, it’s probably not healthy.

5.) Know what you want from life and what you want in a woman. If you give the impression that any female with two legs will do, it will reflect badly on you. If you have no standards, it implies that you don’t think highly of yourself. You will seem undesirable and desperate.

6.) If you have a quick mind, use it. Women love wit and cleverness. Appropriate humor delivered rapidly is key. Even a remark that’s only mildly funny can be very effective if delivered quickly.

7.) Be a flexible conversationalist. The more that you can talk about, the greater your ease at relating to a variety of women. It’s so much easier when you’re on top of the subject being discussed. There’s no groping around for the next thing to say. Being able to connect with a woman because of some common ground is powerful. How do you do this? Be curious about the world around you. Observe things. Read some books.

8.) Don’t make obvious efforts at blending in. Blend in too well and you’ll become a piece of wallpaper. You want to stand out in some way. Be unique. Don’t follow the pack because that’s what beta males do. Be a leader.

9.) Be a tease. Knowing the proper way to tease a woman can be very enjoyable for both your and her. It creates sexual tension (always a good thing) and it demonstrates that you’re not phased by her stunning beauty. While everyone else dishes out the usual compliments, you’ll come across as different. Teasing is an art and should be playful. If you spent your childhood teasing your sisters (I was merciless) then you’ll be a natural. If you tease inappropriately, it will backfire. Do it skillfully or don’t do it at all.



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Nautical/ Beach Decorating Ideas [iTsArticles]

Invite the calming, breezy images of the ocean into your home with nautical and beach-themed decor. Nautical decor styles are fitting for every room of the house. Incorporate the beach theme into your home through the creative use of color, furniture and accessories. Even if you are miles from the beach, a nautical theme in your home creates a sense of relaxation through images of endless shorelines and bobbing sailboats.

Walls and Floors

A nautical color palette brings to mind images of the ocean and shoreline. Select colors that are light and not oversaturated. Sky blue or pale green walls add a bit of color while most neutral whites and creams are suitable for a simple palette. Crisp white accents add a sense of freshness to most nautical color schemes. For example, add simple white crown and baseboard molding instead of natural wood molding. For a Cape Cod beach house feel, add white wainscoting up around the room. If you prefer a more playful vibe, a printed wallpaper border adorned with star fish, anchors or drifting sailboats offers a splash of fun. More sophisticated spaces are dressed up by a border designed to look like an antique map or compass rose. Natural wood floors mimic the style of classic tall ships or sailboats; wide planks create a rustic beach house feel while light laminate hardwood brightens the space. Soften wood floors with textured and tightly-braided area rugs in natural fibers and colors like sand, cream or navy blue.

Furniture

Nautical-themed furniture gives the appearance that it is weathered and well-loved. Create a shabby chic space by selecting wooden furniture pieces with a faux antique or distressed look. For example, a wooden kitchen table finished with white paint is suitable for a beach bungalow dining room. Reclaimed side tables with small chips of paint add a rustic element to a living room or bedroom. Offer wicker seating with blue and white striped cushions in a dining or living room. Select pieces with subtle nautical details rather than elaborate beach-themed carvings or inlays. A bed frame with posters featuring rope-style wood detailing recalls boat tie lines; a coffee table with a simple four-pointed star resembling a compass rose is a classy option for living rooms.

Accessories

Clever collections of beach-themed accessories add the integral touches of style to a nautical-themed room or home. In a bathroom, line the windowsill with colorful glass fish to match an underwater-themed shower curtain; small vials of sand dotted with miniature shells make a sophisticated accessory for the windowsill above a kitchen sink. Instead of framed paintings, cover walls with reclaimed pieces of boats, like anchors or helms; create scrapbook-style shadowboxes by collecting and gluing various shells into simple white-framed boxes. Select fabrics featuring subtle nautical themes for throw pillows or bed linens; bobbing star fish or sailboats are muted but playful. Avoid busy nautical patterns for curtains or large pieces of upholstered furniture; instead select colors in the appropriate palette or simple navy and cream stripes to evoke the beach theme.
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Balance Brights: Accessorizing in Pop Colors [iTsArticles]


Here's how to spring into this season's trends: Pair some show-stopping magenta shorts with a loose chiffon blouse that has a splash of magenta in the pattern as well as another bright color such as electric yellow or hot orange. Not your colors? There's a bright for everyone this spring. Try electric blue, neon purple, bright candy apple red, electric green or fuchsia.
Whatever your color choice, from a hot pink dress to sunshine yellow capris, you'll need accessories that let the brights steal the spotlight -- or that add more pop. Neutral colors are a sure thing, but bright shades also can complement your dramatic look. And don't neglect your hair and makeup; they're accessories all on their own.

Neutral Colors

The hot colors of spring can be dressed down for a casual look by pairing them with nude or neutral tones. Brian Hodge, fashion expert and former visual merchandiser for Abercrombie and Fitch in Los Angeles, recommends "nude skinny belts, nude peep-toe wedges and cream scarves" so your brights are the stars of your fashion show. Neutral doesn't have to mean nude or cream. You can work in other neutrals such as a baby blue beaded bracelet; soft gray, black or floral white sandals; or a hint of light yellow in a necklace pendant to pair with a hot orange tank.
"Skirts and dresses can be worn during the day as casual looks, as long as you accessorize with neutrals and wear flats," Hodge said.
For example, make a neon purple dress casual by pairing it with a nude skinny belt, tan ballet flats and a medium-sized handbag in muted gray with gold chain straps. To keep jewelry from overtaking our outfit, wear small or medium silver or two-toned silver and gold earrings and bangles.
Switch from day to night with this look by substituting nude pumps for the flats. Hodge also suggests "a shiny navy blue belt and adding a light gray or muted charcoal blazer" to complete your evening ensemble.

Bright on Bright

This season is all about taking a risk with brights and you can go a step further. "Dress bright solids up by following trend and carefully selecting other brights to accessorize with," Hodge said.

Amanda Loring, a stylist who has worked for magazines such as "L'Officiel" and "Cosmo," recommends "color blocking your outfits with similar hues. For example, mixing and matching electric yellow, orange and red or hot green, blue and purple."

She suggests wearing a "solid electric yellow, long dress with strappy cherry red and electric orange flat sandals and an electric orange clutch" as a semi-casual outfit.

The brighter the color the more your spring cocktail dress will pop at night. If electric blue is your choice,  loring recommends pairing it with "a fuchsia, chiffon scarf that is patterned with splashes of white and bright turquoise."

"If you want to add some edge to your look," she added, "accessorize with an electric purple snake skin handbag." Bright-colored handbags are perfect for playing with colors. Choose purses in a timeless shape, but in a bold shade, so it will stay in style after the trend fades.

The Gucci spring 2011 collection, featured in Glamour Magazine, rocked bright shoes that match the primary color. So, if your dress is neon yellow, pull it together with neon yellow pumps. Gucci also works gold into the mix this spring. Have some fun with your accessories and add a gold headband and bangles to complement your bright magenta or blue dress. If you need a jacket, match similar color schemes, such as a hot orange skirt with a magenta top paired with a candy apple red jacket.

Hair and Makeup

Makeup and hair styles are accessories on their own. Choose a splash of bright makeup that will flatter your tone and complexion. But don't go overboard with bright makeup when wearing an outfit that is already bright; just choose one bright color to accentuate your overall look.

If you are blonde with light skin tones, for example, make your eyes pop with a yellow, chartreuse or electric blue shadow. Choose the one that works with your eye color. If you have dark hair and skin tones, magenta or hot orange blush lightly swept on and then blended on your upper cheek bone will make your complexion pop.

Hodge recommends going further and accessorizing with makeup that is right for your personal "season," which is based on your hair and skin tones. He adds that you can still splash bright makeup on your eyes if you are a warm or light season as long as the rest of your makeup is in the right tones.

Complete your spring look with your hairstyle. Gucci's spring fashion show featured so many bold color combinations, the stylists balanced the look with chic, sleek ponytails. Paul Mitchell recruiter Ashley Maloney agrees with Gucci's simple styling.

"If you follow trend and flaunt brights this spring, keep your hair tame so it doesn't overshadow the look," she said. Maloney offers several suggestions for hairstyles that will complement your spring outfits.

"If you want to wear your hair down, go with light, flowy curls and part it in the middle or be super trendy and slick your hair back with hair gel," she said. "Low ponytails work this season, too, parted in the middle or on the side."
Long locks are also trendy, she says, and you can add some clip-in extensions. Maloney warns not to add too many accessories to your hair: A skinny headband is all right, but skip chunky accessories so all eyes are on your brights.

Tips & Warnings

  • You can brighten up your nails this season by painting them solid electric colors or even patterns. If you are going for a casual look, paint them nude or very light pink.

  • If you want to make a statement pair a bold-colored dress such as magenta with a flashy patterned scarf and bright heels.
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    Makeup Mop Up [iTsArticles]


    That eyeliner has been sitting on your dresser for two years. But you just can't let it go. A trip to the store for a reload is tedious and potentially costly, and nothing else gives you that perfect cat's-eye. You know it's wrong, but you love it. Besides, if you've already spent a fortune on your foundation or shadow, do you really have to throw it out after just a few months? Yeah, yeah ... old make-up is bad for you, but just how bad?
    As it turns out, there can be some nasty, even dangerous consequences when some types of make-up have exhausted their shelf life, but that doesn't mean you can't make it last a little longer.

    To Preserve & Protect:

    Three months. That's the general throw-out rule for eyeliners and mascaras. They touch the sensitive and damp inner eyelid, which is susceptible to infection. Pencil liner could last you a bit longer, says to Michelle Keck, makeup artist on ABC's "Private Practice." But nothing is fool-proof without a few precautions.
    "As a makeup artist at work, I use alcohol spray on pencil liners, and then I shave them down, then I spray them again," Keck said, noting that such extreme care and sanitary practices are essential when working on set with so many different people.
    A meticulous cleaning technique is a good idea for anyone using pencils, makeup artist or not. Keck adds that the consistency of the pencil plays a part, too, in how well it may age and safely last.

    "I've kept pencils up to a year," she said. "But after that time, they may lose their creaminess and dry out. 
    The creamier it was to begin with, the shorter lifespan it has." But Keck does not take any chances.

    "Mascara goes off very quickly anyway, but anytime somebody has an irritation in their eye of any kind, I recommended they throw away all of their eye makeup."
    But how can you tell it's gone bad? Just like that milk in the fridge, it needs to pass the smell test.
    "I don't put dates on my makeup. I really use my nose more than anything," Keck said. "And if a product is starting to smell off or dries out, then I know it's time for it to go, whether or not it seems unsanitary to use anymore.

    "With foundation, you'll notice either an off smell or the formula begins to separate when it's getting old. 
    When you shake it up, it doesn't really mix well."
    Keck recommends keeping foundation for six months to a year, depending on how you use and apply it. 
    Pump dispensers can extend a foundation's lifespan.

    Indeed, beyond knowing if it's bad, you should also try to control when it goes bad. Those pump dispensers are one trick. And palettes are a handy way of drawing out the life of creamy products. Keck decants cream blush into a palette, and for makeup such as cream shadows and cake eyeliner, the palette allows the use of clean brushes.

    "If you have eyeliner in a pot, scoop a little bit out and put it on a palette," Keck advised. "Then use a brush. Never double-dip a brush from your eye back into the product."

    Don't use your fingers, though. As manicured as they may be, those digits can be dirty. And once exposed to bacteria, the product will start to degrade more quickly. You can always use clean fingers to blend once the product is applied to the skin. And once you've dispensed the foundation from the bottle, using your fingers can be an economical move, allowing you to use the product sparingly.

    "When you use a sponge or brush, they soak up the product, and some of it goes to waste, whereas using your fingers doesn't waste any of the foundation," Keck added. If you do use a sponge, though, "You should be using a new one every time," she said. "Most people don't because they figure, 'Oh, it's my own face.'"

    Dry products such as pressed powder or powder blush aren't quite as big a concern. You can get a year out of them, notes Keck, particularly if you're not sharing. Their age may not be as obvious, though. Expiration may show its face simply when the products don't blend well or stop performing. Still, Keck says, of all makeup, powder products last the longest.

    What's the Damage?

    If you choose to ignore all the advice in pursuit of your cat's-eye, can it be that bad? Actually it can.
    "Old makeup can become a breeding ground for bacteria," said Dr. Stuart Kaplan, a Beverly Hills-based dermatologist.
    "[It] may cause your skin to become red, itchy, swollenor even develop an infection," said Kaplan. "This is especially true for your eyelids, which have thinner and more sensitive skin." Pustules, anyone?
    Many products make claims of organic or natural qualities, which could lead you to think you're safer, longer. But think again.

    "Your skin may love [natural ingredients], but so do bacteria," Kaplan said.
    If you do have a breakout, you don't necessarily need to panic. Sometimes it's just allergies. Other times, it's worse. Either way, it's difficult for you to tell the difference.

    "For any reaction, it is always best to consult your dermatologist," Kaplan advised. "However, if you see pus, crusting or oozing, it suggests you have a bacterial infection. Redness and swelling can be seen with either an allergic reaction or an early bacterial infection, but since the treatments are different, you must get a professional diagnosis."
    If you're unsure if something is safe, Kaplan suggests doing a skin test before putting makeup on your face.

    "Each person can have a different reaction to makeup," he said. "If you have sensitive skin, apply a small sample on your inner arm for a few days. Remember though, in particularly sensitive cases, even if your inner arm does not react, your face or eyelids can still become irritated, since the skin there is even more sensitive."

    With this in mind, it's best to err on the side of caution with eye products in particular. If you're in any doubt, throw it out. Stick to the three-month rule for liquid eyeliner and mascara, and sterilize and sharpen pencils between each use. And remember Rule One of the golden rules: Don't share.

    "You don't share your toothbrush," Kaplan said. "Don't share skin products or brushes."


    Makeup Safety Tips:

    • Try labeling your makeup with the date you purchased it. You can use a silver or gold permanent marker for a more attractive result.
    • If you use a makeup bag, clean it thoroughly on a regular basis. Place the empty bag in hot soapy water, wash and dry completely before using. If the exterior is not washable, spray the interior with antibacterial cleaner.
    • Wipe down the outside your products with antibacterial spray, and keep a peroxide spray handy for sterilizing eye and lip pencils.
    • Cut a sliver off your lipstick if anyone else uses it, and sharpen all pencils between uses.
    • If you're storing your make-up on your dressing table or a similar open space, keep that surface clean by using bleach or a sanitizing spray once a week.
    • Makeup kept in your handbag should be carried inside a clean, separate zip-up bag to protect it from contact with bacteria-laden tissues, keys and change.

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